Falling Down the Mountain

Queue Jane’s Addiction here! And yes, while the lyrics are “coming down he mountain”, my experience was more about falling…

FOOD

Strangely enough, I don’t actually have that many pictures of my grub. I had a brief work trip and a long weekend ski trip, so there aren’t really any shots from that. But it’s been typical fare. Smoothies, salads, soups, oatmeal, curries, tacos, and pizza (okay, pizza isn’t that common for me, but it was a lunch out with JG at a local spot that has vegan cheese!)

I wish I had pics of the taco night. 14 of us in a rental house for the weekend, and taco night was the bomb! I made my awesome black beans and a big batch of rice. OPR made her tacos and everyone was happy with dinner that night!

FITNESS

Well, I was sick for a solid week, so that fully sucked. Nasty viral thingy where I just couldn’t get my fever down. It was so strange because I didn’t have any other real symptoms.

I would say skiing counted, but I’m pretty sure all I did was fall, so probably not!

Once I was back home, it was nearly my normal routine again. Runs & workouts in my home gym/garage. I was hoping to hit up some hot yoga, but thus far my week has been too chaotic to make any of the classes. It’s not looking like it’ll ease up until Sunday at this point.

LIFE

Well, I was only in the office for 3 days before heading out on a long weekend trip. A bunch of us rented a house and went skiing. 14 in the end (was supposed to be 16, but stomach flu sidelined a couple!). It was still awesome. All I can say is thank goodness for helmets! Without them, I’m pretty sure my kids would be in the ICU advising the doctors that yes, I am an organ donor. Skiing is most definitely NOT my jam. Turns out stopping is pretty difficult! I suppose starting with lessons would’ve been a good plan. Alas…next time…

And it certainly wasn’t all skiing. There was plenty of drinking and hot tubbing and even hit up a comedy club (which was actually a total riot).

Got home Sunday evening and hung with the kids, did laundry, and did some studying. Thankfully I had nothing on that front since I did it all early so I wouldn’t have to worry about it on our trip. Sunday was really about organizing the week ahead.

The Sunday prior, R got to spend a day being mentored by a NASA engineer! He volunteers at the school robotics team, and has been working closely with R on her areas. He has a home workshop he invited her to – and me as well since no mother in their right mind is going to let their daughter spend a day in a workshop with a stranger. He was very understanding of that and had brought it up as well. So I sat at his table saw and studied with R and he first used some CAD software and than began machining some parts for the project. She looked like she was at Disney, she was so happy!

Other than that, it’s been a pretty good week so far, with one exception. Our beloved cat Bumble (who is 18) is in kidney failure, and working with the vet, there is no longer anything we can do for her. We will be saying goodbye to her tomorrow, and it’s heartbreaking.

So not to end on a sad note, here are some random pics. I’m sure I’ll have a ton of Bumble in my next post…

Thriving on Chaos (as usual)

FOOD

What a chaotic few weeks! Getting back into the swing of school, work, family, social life balance seems to always lead to more meals out, which is never my first choice. Don’t get me wrong – I do love to go out to eat for sure – but I really prefer to make good and healthy meals for the kids and me.

Smoothies are still my favorite for breakfast, and lots of salads, soups, curries, and of course tacos for everything else!

FITNESS

Same as always – runs and hot yoga and some workouts in the garage! We had more snow, so that meant a lot of indoor workouts – which are my least favorite.

Unfortunately, I got sick last Monday, and while I’m managing as long as I keep my fever down (been a huge pain to have a persistent fever), I’m still not up for runs. So, gentle yoga at home and daily meditation and it’s all helping.

LIFE

It’s certainly been a busy couple of weeks, but that’s nothing new. On the home front, R has gotten really involved in her high school’s robotics club, and is there pretty much every night and Saturday. They have a big competition coming up, and she’s really loving it. Her mentor is a NASA engineer and she’s learning so much and loving every minute of it.

School is really intense, but that’s okay. I do really enjoy it though. I picked up this wonderful book called Deep Work by Cal Newport, and it’s really given me an edge I think on obtaining that hyper focus I need to do well in school and build this new program at work. He goes into detail in how our deeply connected world has led to a inability of people to “go deep” in concentration and therefore production of meaningful work. After all, how can I write publishable papers and build professional program frameworks if I’m checking Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram 50 times per day? (Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE my social media, but it does provide a next-level distraction that I can do without). I have a long way to go before fully implementing all the techniques I’m learning, but it’s been really impactful so far. I first heard about it on the MentorBox podcast (I’m a MentorBox member), and was so intrigued, I picked up the audio book. I’m now thinking I need a print copy as well! I don’t do that for many books – usually the audio is fine – but this is one I feel I’d like to have for a quick review time and again. I plan to check it out at the library first to see if there’s anything in there I’m not getting from the audio book (like some physical examples he discusses). Anyway – if you have any interest in professional development and increasing productivity – especially as a knowledge-worker – I highly recommend it.

Work is getting more and more interesting as we progress through our restructuring and I work on building this new division. The good thing is I have very loose direction, so I get to build it the way I think it should be – rather than following a prescribed set of expectations. I’ve always enjoyed that freedom to be creative with my work, and to base my ideas off of research and best practice in varying industries. It’ll be slow going for awhile – which is fine – since we all still have “day jobs” until the restructure is done. But it’s still be fun to get into.

I was in Chicago this past week for a few days. Was supposed to be Wednesday – Sunday (today), but ended up coming home Friday due to expected inclement weather in Chicago. I was bummed because I was supposed to visit family Friday afternoon-Sunday morning. Fortunately, I know I’ll be back there in May at least, so will make an extended trip to visit family and friends back home.

Other than that, I’m enjoying time with my munchkins as well as an active social life. Excited that this will be a short week as I head out of town on a little get away with about 15 of my friends! I guess that means it’s time to get back to the books so I can get all my school work done before mini-vacay starts!

All told, I have an incredibly busy life, and I love it. I’ve always known I can’t sit still, and certainly couldn’t just do nothing all day. Some may say I take it to the other extreme – on the go constantly. And there may be some truth to that, but I can’t imagine it any other way. I do take “breaks” to slow down a little bit, but must admit, I love living in my world of barely controlled chaos!

A couple friends and I went to an 80’s event at a local bar. I certainly went all out in my outfit (leggings, tutu, side pony, lace gloves, etc). Sadly not all did. But that’s okay, it was a good time anyway!

Also did a day trip to Richmond for some serious fun, which included a couple Cideries and meeting up with friends. My favorite, shockingly, was a jalapeño lime cider at a place called Busky’s. SO good.

Winter is Here (ish)

FOOD

Well it’s definitely been cold and icky (for southeastern VA, anyway….don’t judge. I hate cold!). Which means warming foods as much as possible.

Breakfasts have pretty consistently been oatmeal and smoothies. I’m on a vanilla/orange kick lately. And obviously I love that UVA Tervis…

Lunches are mainly a BAS (Big Ass Salad for newer readers) and fruit. I was telling a friend this week that I pretty much need to have at least one salad per day or I just don’t feel right.

Dinners vary. Soups, stir fries, curries, and rice & beans are main stays at my house. Also made mushroom stroganoff last night, as it’s one of R’s fav’s. It still blows her mind that the creaminess comes from tofu. All in all, a week of most excellent eats (after all, life is too short to eat bad and boring food).

FITNESS

After signing up for the half later in 2018, I’ve gotten even more on a run kick. I’m seriously considering doing a run streak soon. For now, it’s been 5x per week runs, hot yoga when I can get to the studio, and taking FULL advantage of my home gym!

Speaking of – I’ve had a membership to Beach Body on Demand for almost a year – with every intention to use it. What I found is that most of the programs are a combination of cardio and weights/HIIT workouts. Which is great for most people, but I really prefer (and frankly need) to run for my cardio. Trust me – if I don’t run regularly, I’m pretty sure I’m impossible to be around. And for the couple programs that are strictly strength training based (which is what I want), I didn’t have the equipment, and there was no way I was hauling my laptop to the gym.

BUT. Enter my new home gym. I suddenly have everything. So, I dusted off the membership and started up the Body Beast program. It’s 30-60 minutes every day, and then I go for a run. So it’s been kinda perfect. Though my butt is KILLING me today. All the squats, lunges, and deadlifts yesterday has my tush hurting just a bit. Oh well, it’s the good hurt, so I can’t complain. So far I’ve done chest, tri’s, back, bi’s, and legs. Pretty much all of me is sore, which is actually pretty awesome. I will reiterate what I said last time. Pull-ups/chin-ups SUCK. My youngest, however, loves them.

Tomorrow though – hot yoga. It’s cold as hell and I need the balance.

LIFE

No complaints. It’s been a busy week, and I like that. Monday was R’s eye dr appointment and then bowling. Tuesday was cribbage club. Wednesday was a vendor party I stopped at briefly and then down to Birch Bar to meet up with a girlfriend I hadn’t seen in 3 years! It was awesome to catch up over some yummy local sour ales. Started with the Hippolyta, which was good. But Tapestry was the BOMB.

Thursday I met up with a friend of mine for wine. And speaking of wine…..I got a case of 20 bottles from the Wall Street Journal wine club – for about $80. Crazy, but awesome!

Friday night was chill. I went to see Star Wars by myself (gave my kids my Saturday night tix to go with their friends), worked out, took R to a follow-up eye dr appointment, made dinner, and went to bed pretty early.

Today was brunch, meal planning, shopping, working out, reading, cleaning, and chilling out. 2 kids are at the movies and 1 at a holiday party. WOO HOO – solo mom time! Went out for my fav Thai and picked up the last of the stocking stuffers for Christmas.

Of course sprinkled in this is that whole work thing – which is also going very well. No complaints there either.

So yeah – pretty awesome week and weekend! Stay tuned for a giveaway coming up in the next couple days.

Oh yeah – and the fluffs are as cool as ever. Along with my morning coffee ritual (read – leave me alone while I have a cup of coffee after waking up….I’m incapable of conversation).

It’s Party Season!

FOOD

Mostly simple meals, even when traveling the few days I had to this month. Salads, soups, smoothies, curries, and I’ve totally gotten on the ONO (overnight oats) bandwagon. Seriously – 1/2 cup of oats, 1/2 cup nondairy milk (I like the So Delicious Original Coconut Milk), and a healthy amount of Penzy’s Apple Pie spice.

Stir Fried Mushrooms, BBQ Tofu, and Mashers

FITNESS

I finally built the Power Tower in the garage, so there’s a full fledged mini gym, and I’ve definitely taken advantage of it. FYI – pull ups suck.

Also hot yoga and runs as well, plus a lovely trail run.

And on that note, I signed up for a half marathon for later in the year. I got out of the race habit when I started grad school, and I’ve really missed it. It’ll be nice to have a race to train for again.

Also, downloaded a weather app called WTForcast. Love it. This was this evening’s weather as I prepped for a night run….

LIFE

Busy busy busy. But that’s nothing new, and I honestly wouldn’t know what to do with myself if I was just home all day all the time. Yuck. I’d be bored senseless and probably become pretty damned boring myself!

Work has been really good. I’m liking my new role a lot – my focus is on building a new program and core competency in innovation, and I love having so much freedom to develop that framework myself. Fun stuff.

I had to do some traveling to attend a staff Christmas party out of town, but it was a nice trip. The party itself was nice, if not small. I also got to see one of my girlfriends who lives up there, so that’s always a bonus!

Last Monday was the UVA Darden School of Business Alumni holiday party for local alums. Three of us from my class went (the 4th was vacationing in Hawaii – the brat), as well as a couple people from work who went to Darden as well. It was a nice evening, and a great chance to network with local alumni.

R had her first high school orchestra concert this week! She plays bass and they all honestly put on an amazing performance.

On Friday R and I went to a pre screening of Jumanji. It was hilarious and we had a blast.

R and I hit up the salon yesterday. She got her hair cut and I got a pedi (sparkly red for the holidays!).

Then it was off to an ugly sweater party at one of my bowling team mates house. That was a ton of fun. My sweater was interactive. Basically a drinking game. The front is a target and people are given Velcro balls to throw at it. Funny enough, one of the other party goers had a similar sweater! All in all, fun stuff.

Otherwise, it’s been normal life stuff. Kids, fluffs, and friends!

Have a great week!!

Thankful Living

How on earth have 3 weeks passed since my last post?! Yikes – apologies. Been working, playing, cooking, and working out as always. Won’t bore you with ALL the details, but focus on the past week and fun Thanksgiving stuff!

FOOD

Some highlights include an awesome Indian feast I made one night and then took for lunch with a friend in the office. Tofu pot pie, which is always a family favorite. I think A about lost it when she saw leftovers! It’s Fall, which means soup season! Creamy broccoli and my all time fav from Post Punk Kitchen – Red Curry w/ Rice and Kale! And of course smoothies, green curry, and plenty of baked potatoes!

But – on to the groovy eats this Thanksgiving weekend!

We had a house full for Thanksgiving this year! Of course the kids and me (M had to work until 5), my Son 2 (one of M’s besties), my friends MM and RM from Virginia Beach, and OR, GR, and ER from Richmond! It’s hard to fathom the amount of food we had laid out, but to give you an idea – Tofurky (of course), stuffing, maple roasted carrots, sweet cornbread, balsamic roasted brussel sprouts, green bean casserole, mashed potatoes, mushroom gravy, homemade wheat-rosemary bread, pumpkin pie, and OR made an amazing Russian eggplant dish (to which she has still not given me the recipe!) and a gorgeous spinach salad. Son 2 made cupcakes! It blows my mind that there were pretty much no leftovers!

A posing at the snack bar!  We always have snacks out for grazing before dinner in the evening.  Pretzels, gluten free crackers, 4 different hummus flavors, mixed olive, etc)

Here’s A posing at the snack bar (we always have snacks out for grazing before dinner in the evening).

A bunch of the dishes prepped and waiting for their rotation into the ovens.

My plate!

Friday night was dinner at MM and RM’s house where they made a fully vegan meal just for me! Chili, corn bread, a cream cheese dip, and wine! Seriously – I have the bestest friends in the whole world!

FITNESS

Lots of running and hot yoga! Even a hike on one lovely weekend. Started using Endomondo and so far I like it. Only thing I haven’t figured out (though I have emailed support in case it’s user error!) – is the audio coach doesn’t let you know when you hit the halfway mark so you can turn around and head back. I for one, am not always the most observant person, was not paying attention to how long I’d been out nor how far I’d gone. In the end – on my last run I went nearly an extra 3 mi! Not a big deal, but annoying when it comes to a training run.

Post hot yoga. Not cute, but a good workout shouldn’t be!

Runs on chilly days!

LIFE

It’s certainly been a busy few weeks. Monday nights are bowling with friends. Tuesday is Cribbage Club at a local pub. The rest of the days are mostly at home but sometimes out with friends. Plus traveling.

Shots with the boys at bowling! MC was clearly feeling a bit rowdy!

Speaking of traveling – my sister and niece came to visit last weekend! It was my nieces first flight, so that made it extra special. They landed Friday afternoon, and we (me, my sister, niece, and R) went up to DC for the night. We had dinner downtown, then the girls hung out in the room while C and I went to the hotel bar and caught up a bit. Lot’s gone on in the last year since we’ve actually seen each other, so it was nice. The next day was monuments and a tour at the Capitol Building. C got to scratch a bucket list item off when we went to the Library of Congress – which was cool.

We drove home the next day, the girls played Xbox and C and I started a movie. The next day we all went to see Justice League, and then it was pretty much off to the airport. A whirlwind trip for sure, but an awesome one.

This was a short week with the holiday’s so that was nice. Really loved how much time I got to spend with family and friends. As tough as the last year has been, in some ways it’s also been an amazing one. Finishing grad school was certainly a highlight. While a shock, the divorce has been a positive thing for me too. I have a lot of really amazing friends, the best kids, a job I enjoy, plenty of extra curriculars, and no reason to not love my life every single day. So yeah – lots to be thankful for.

Someone didn’t make it up to bed last night. And I don’t mean Kuma!

Stopped by and saw M at work today before heading to watch the Chelsea match!

And some other miscellaneous shots of the past few weeks! Hope you all had an incredible Thanksgiving (for my US friends) and a great week for the rest of my friends around the world!

Guess I’m No Quitter After All

Okay guys, I really came close to quitting blogging.  Part of it was because I know how sparse my posts have been, and I also started to feel I lost my blogging mojo.  Since becoming single, I’ve spent so much of the past few months finding my “new normal”, that I just felt a little out of touch with how I’ve blogged in the past.  But today I realized I’m not actually done, so I guess I’m no quitter after all 🙂

FOOD

There’s literally no way possible for me to show you the eats of the past 6 weeks.  Actually, I probably could, but that would just be way too long!

It’s been pretty typical fare: smoothies, soups, curries, baked potatoes, and the like.  A lot of traveling too, so some more fun eats as well.

made some homemade soy yogurt! Love this stuff. I make it super tart so it can be used in place of things like sour cream too

nice krispies!

spicy tofu soup!

Of course I had a TON of meals on the road the past month.

my survival basket from Whole Foods in San Jose (wine, fruit, etc).
this, my friends, is called a Paffle. It’s two waffles, with tofu scramble in the middle! A bit challenging to eat, but so creative!
can’t go to Florida and NOT go to Epcot. Well, I guess maybe you can, but I know I can’t! It was the international food and wine fest, which was just perfect

I was in Tampa for my bday and the group I was with sent this to my room. Very sweet (even though I didn’t eat it, it’s the thought that counts!)
Dallas had the BEST Mexican and Tex-Mex fare ever.
ugly pic, but amazing fajitas!

oddly super-green curry. But yummy.
got to see my good friend JG in Dallas! Lovely evening with wine and Thai food!

typical hotel vegan food offerings….
so the conference in Dallas specifically asked for dietary needs. I said vegan. NOTHING they served was. So they went and got me two bananas one morning. Ugh.

FITNESS

As it happens, I tore my right quadricep in that soccer game in mid-September, so I was sidelined for weeks!  I was allowed to eventually do gentle yoga, but otherwise it was walks and upper body workouts only.

Just yesterday I finally felt fully ready to get back into some of my normal routine.  So – I went to Hot Yoga!  Hopefully this week there will be more of that, and some runs and boxing too.  Being still just never works well for me.

hot, sweaty, stinky (I imagine anyway), and incredibly happy!

 

LIFE

Well, let’s see.  Lots in the past 6 weeks of course.  I had trips to San Jose, Tampa (with a side trip to Orlando), Charlottesville, Williamsburg, and Dallas.

me an my soon to be ex brother in law (but will ALWAYS be family) in San Jose!
hands down my fav theme park

Also, my youngest went to her first school dance!  Homecoming – and I wonder where my little girl has gone.

hair appt – where Raven the miracle worker actually tamed her crazy curls

And other fun stuff!

bought this at Epcot. Couldn’t help myself (Disney junkie that I am!). Micky heads with the epcot ball design
waiting for my flight home from Tampa
part of my 7 hr delay on my flight to Dallas
me and the oldest cabbage at Howl o Scream!
out with HT for wine flights, olives, and hummus
silly selfie out walking Kuma
me holding my baby boy (okay, JG and KG’s baby boy) and R’s 3rd bday party.
at our IT charity Nerd Golf event
all three in the same space without trying to eat each other. Clearly I’m cooking and they each think I have something they want
came home from some travels to find this on the fridge. Man, I love my kids…
carpooling with the eldest as her car was in the shop

Ginny wanting to come with me
with friends at Wine Fest!
and by FAR the best bday meme I got! This from OPR (who I also saw at Howl o Scream)