Be Smart & Stay Home or Else You’re Just in the Peeing Section

FOOD

Yesterday I made a tofu Dijon Alfredo over Konjac noodles with green beans. Was another OMAD meal, which seems to be my trend of late.

Today I picked up hummus lettuce wraps from one of my fav places when I was out and about. No shame – ate in in my car while listening to Andy Slavitt’s new podcast – In the Bubble – so no pictures, sorry!

This evening I did have some fun in the kitchen. I made my first ever seed bread. It’s flourless. I’ve been really diligent and committed to no sugar and gluten-free. I’m feeing better than I ever have, and so I’m digging into recipes I never would have. Won’t have any until tomorrow, but I’m interested in how it turned out!

Pumpkin, sunflower, and chia seeds. Psyllium husk and pea protein. Water and tahini.

I also finally shredded up the green and red cabbages I bought last week. Then decided to shred up some carrot and make a rice vinegar and sesame slaw for tomorrow.

FITNESS

Yesterday I went for a run after my last meeting. Or what I thought was my last meeting as I got a call when I was in my last mile. Thankfully D understood and I just called him when I got home!

No pic of me – it was crazy windy so felt more of a resistance workout than cardio at times! But, can’t complain what my HR monitor showed!

Today I did a spin class and resistance workout, all with TRX. So my gym is obviously closed. And I was honestly thinking of canceling my membership when all is said and done because I’ve been running and using my bike and perfectly happy with that. BUT – here’s what they’ve done…

Waived all membership dues while everything is closed. Offered for free, live streaming classes, all the Les Mills library of recorded and live classes, TRX free for a year, and virtual personal training! I was shocked. Sounds like a good business that is vested in keeping their members healthy over profits. I don’t think I’ll be canceling my membership after all….

LIFE

Yesterday was honestly work and more work. Again though, can’t complain. It’s energizing and humbling work. Though I am pretty exhausted!

While I do need to work this weekend to catch up from the week, I decided today was not going to be that day. I had a bit of a rough night, but did sleep in until 830. After feeding the floofs and playing with Kuma, I headed out to get supplies.

I was going to go to Whole Foods, but was driving past Fresh Market (after picking up my brunch from Bay Local!) and saw their parking lot was virtually empty. While I have my mask to wear, I felt more comfortable shopping somewhere where there was virtually no one! I got everything I wanted and headed out.

Second stop was to Hickory Ridge Farms. They do a grab bag and you drive through to get it. For $24, I got 1 lemon, 2 cucumbers, 2 zucchini, 2 yellow squash, 2 oranges, 2 apples, 3 ears of corn, 1 pound snap beans, 1 big onion, 1 big tomato, 2 lbs red potatoes, and 2 bell peppers. I also bought a pound of strawberries.

You just drive up behind a huge line of cars (love to see the big lines) and get your grub. You can also get salsas, breads, and a few other things.

After I got home and put everything away, I cleaned and cut the strawberries, cleaned out the fridge, and cleaned the kitchen.

Then it was an hour and a half FaceTime call with my girlfriend H. We can honestly talk for hours. Was great to see her and her family – and all 3 of mine popped in to say hi.

Then it was my workout, shower, and kitchen fun! Now I’m off to bed, and tomorrow will largely be a work day.

Be smart and stay home. Otherwise – you’re in the peeing section

My COVID Routine

FOOD

Well, we’re out of cookies, and that’s a tragedy I will rectify this evening. I did make a loaf of bread already tho!

In the mean time I’ve had smoothies, several bowls of spicy tofu soup, a BAS (Big Ass Salad) for the newbies, and even made some chocolate chia pudding!

Honestly, the green beans were too long – but they were frozen, so I found myself eating them with my fingers
Super simple. Coconut milk, chia seeds, and cocoa powder. I sprinkled in some stevia too
Topped with my tofu eggless salad

FITNESS

Ran yesterday and today. It was raining yesterday and there was a lull in it, so I thought I’d risk it. Bad move, as I was 2mi from home when the rain restarted. Oops! That second 2 miles were faster than usual tho 😜

I’m a big fan of audiobooks when I run. I’m re-listening to one from many years ago – Dead Witch Walking by Kim Harrison.

Was a bummer because I had to wait to shower – got home in time for some meetings, so 2 hours later, I was cold and still kinda damp.

Today, however, was 60 and sunny and wonderful. Another 2 hrs before I could shower, but that’s okay. I do love the ability to run mid-day. I very much prefer it over mornings!

Today’s audiobook was Harry Potter on Overdrive courtesy of my library. I don’t normally listen to two fiction books at the same time, but I forgot I had reserved this, and it became available last night.

LIFE

Well, I can honestly say I don’t mind the at-home life. I’m productive, largely stay busy, and get to spend time with my kids! Well, except M who is still in quarantine and I only see him when I refill his water, tea, or bring him eats. But, his fever when he woke this morning was under triple digits, so I’m hoping that’s a good sign!

Yesterday was really busy work-wise, which isn’t a bad thing at all. I’m lucky that most of what I do is pretty groovy. I was supposed to have a legislative affairs subcommittee meeting, but we had to cancel as the city hasn’t given us directions on virtual meetings. This is related to the Freedom of Information Act and the need to publicize when we have meetings so the public can attend. I contend we can still do that with virtual meetings – just publish the link. But ultimately the City has to decide, so until then, we wait.

Girls were being silly last night. R was on the spin bike, and A just walked up behind her and snatched her and carried her through the house and tossed her on the sofa. To demonstrate her dominance over her “little” sister who is actually taller than both A and me!

Today was less work meetings, which meant more time to get some stuff done! In particular a Proforma for a joint venture I’m working on.

I did get some great news at work today, and at least temporarily, I get to work with/for my literal favorite person. With all the COVID craziness, we are being approached by many vendors, companies, and communities offering to help us. I’m going to be filtering through everything and hopefully start matching opportunities with needs within our health system and community. Even my daughter’s robotics team is offering up their 3D printer to help us. I absolutely love how communities really come together when we need it.

So I have been working from home since March 6th, so I am wrapping up my 3rd week. The week of the 9th was only because I was supposed to be at a conference and I had no office based meetings.

I’m getting into a social distancing groove, and I cannot complain. I work, I workout, meditate, walk Kuma, read the news (a LOT – but always start with WSJ, CNN, and a local one now – that’s new – and then Google News, & Twitter), I usually watch one episode of a show (I’m just not capable of watching lots of TV at once unless I’m sick). I practice my French for at least 20 minutes, but sometimes longer. I cook, clean, and do laundry. Soon will be time to plant and the garden is almost ready for it. And I read, a combination of fiction and nonfiction. Right now, I’m re-reading the Lean Startup as it has practical ramifications for my work. My fiction book I just downloaded the other day (I have Kindle Unlimited which has a huge selection of “free” books you check out). Infernal Magic is the book, and I was reading that when I went to bed last night. I also text a lot with friends as we all check in on each other and keep each other sane.

I am fortunate to have a job that is conducive to working from home, and one that is not interrupted by the COVID requirements. I realize how very lucky I am and am trying to do things locally to help those that aren’t as lucky. I know it’s not enough, but donations to the Food Bank of SE Virginia, buying gift cards from some favorite places, and will likely start doing the curbside to-go for some fav spots so they stay in business and weather this as much as they are able. Curious – how are you doing??

I can’t believe she’s at all comfy

I Prefer Sparkling Isolation

FOOD

Eats have been fairly similar, despite having MUCH more time on my hands than normal. My produce delivery last Friday forgot all my greens, and they were supposed to come back by last night and hadn’t. I called and it’s supposed to be today. It’s 530pm and I’m not holding out hope. I just miss salads!

Beyond Meat crumbles, cauliflower rice, spices, green beans. Boring – should’ve made a sauce for it – but filling.
Konjac noodles, tofu, broccoli, splash of coconut milk, ginger and hot curry powder

FITNESS

Went for a run yesterday. Haven’t worked out today yet, but it’s a toss up between a spin or yoga. My friend O recommended two of her favorite yoga YouTubers, so I’m leaning towards that. My hot yoga studio is streaming classes 2x per day, but so far they have been when I’m in meetings.

It was chilly and misting, and not my best run ever – but I was really annoyed and frustrated, and the point of my run was to burn that off. And I did, so yay!

LIFE

Well, like many states, the guidance has been evolving. Most recently (yesterday), schools are closed through the rest of the academic year. I am not surprised at all. My school district has not been well prepared for this, however, and I think it’ll be a bit before there’s consistency in education. One of the neighboring cities seems to have it on point though, so hopefully mine will take some lessons from them! But two of R’s teachers (eng and chem) have their act together, so at least there’s that.

My work is so conducive to remote life, that virtually nothing has changed for me. I spend quite a bit of time working from home on the regular, and I tend to prefer it.

One thing I’m liking about this new normal is I’ve talked to several friends in the past few days – where we’re all normally so busy that we’ll text occasionally, and that’s it. O and I spoke at length yesterday about life, changes in our lives, work, health (she should be a fitness model, I’m telling ya!), politics, and careers. I realized as we talked how much I miss her and how I have no excuses to not talking to her more often.

Today J called to give me some life updates of his own, which are exciting and I’m super stoked for him – and humbled that I was the person he thought to call and talk about it with. We chatted for a bit, but didn’t want to catch up TOO much because we have a long overdue happy hour 🙂

Lots of texting too. A and I at length today. JN a few times over the past few days. H and my sister, and even my ex who is quarantined due to an autoimmune condition he has. All told, good to catch up with people.

I did something today that I hadn’t done in 20 years. I printed off the Wall Street Journal crossword puzzle! Luna loved the actual printing. It took me awhile. I guessed 5 without help – and 3 were actually right! R got one. And the interwebs helped with the rest!

Don’t know that I’ll do them daily, but it was nice – both to kill time and to work my brain and learn some new vocabulary!

M is still sick – day 6 of running a fever and coughing. Hard not to be worried, but he’s staying hydrated and even eating some, though not a ton. He manages to stay in good spirits, though he has always been like that!

When not working, I’ve been reading a lot, which is nice. Some TV or movies now and then, but mostly spending a lot of time just reflecting on life. What I want. What makes me happy. What in my life doesn’t make me happy or add value. And, while not making any permanent decisions, certainly entertaining ideas for my future and that of my family. All good things. Felt a little selfish at first, but realize it is okay to prioritize myself (not something I’ve ever been good at!)

On interesting note – is how the approach to COVID-19 seems to be divided so much along political ideologies. Those advocating with the public health lens lean democrat, and you can see that clearly in the news with the states that are taking more stringent measures. Those advocating with an economic lens lean republican, and the red states are easing restrictions – if any are in place to begin with. I truly see both sides of the argument, I do, but as someone who has been in healthcare her entire adult life, is a self-proscribed bleeding heart, and who certainly is a liberal democrat, I definitely believe the right thing to do is to prevent – at all costs – a point of no return with our healthcare systems ability to treat patients. Reading reports of what amounts to battlefield triage in Italy where people on vents are being taken off if they’re over a certain age in order to provide care for younger infected people. I know as a care provider, I would never want to have to make that decision – so for the love of all things – STAY HOME. This is when we need our government to work together to ease the economic burden while the rest of us listen to the healthcare experts. (Sermon over, thank you for tuning in).

Don’t appreciate Apple judging me for my quarantine uptick in screen time!

Whiskey and Goats

FOOD

Whew 2 weeks! So crazy how time flies.

Eats have been typical. I made a few soups, definitely some curry happening too. Okay a LOT of Thai food the past two weeks. #notsorry

I had a quick overnight work trip, and dinner out in the downtown Charlottesville area. Delicious brussel sprout salad and a butternut squash farro salad. Apparently this is a table service place where people share – but since I was the only vegan I really wasn’t sharing any of the other dishes, but I did share what I ordered.

This morning I had brunch with my boyfriend – an Acai berry bowl that was delicious.

For lunch, hung out with LC – and it’s been nearly a year since we saw each other. She has been eating vegan for about a month, so we hit up The Bumbling Bee. It’s an all vegan spot in Virginia Beach. I would definitely classify the offerings as comfort food. Burgers, chicken sandwiches, reubens, mac and cheese, etc. I got the Irishman corned beef – turns out it was a sammich and not a stew (which is what I thought I was getting) and a side of mac. L got a bacon chicken ranch burger with fries. We got an order of cauliflower wings.

Unfortunately, my food came out a good 10 minutes before the rest. The cauliflower was supposed to be an appetizer. Oh well. The cauliflower wasn’t bad – but could only really eat one. The mac was not great, so I didn’t eat it. The sammich was pretty good and I had a little more than half. L said her sammich was really great.

All told – I wasn’t really impressed. I appreciate an all vegan spot – I really do – and maybe what I ordered just wasn’t the best (though the server said the Irishman was her second favorite thing and I just can’t see that). The food is also really heavy – so not something I could eat regularly anyway.

FITNESS

More of the same – though more runs than gym just because of time. In some pretty dire need of yoga though.

LIFE

Been a busy two weeks. Last week was short in the office. Off Monday due to MLK day and R and I coming back from Boston. In the office on Tuesday and Wednesday, then in a class Thursday and Friday. The class is a start-up/entrepreneur course for Active Duty, Reservists, and Vets. It was really good and found out about a ton of resources I didn’t even know I had.

Saturday was a benefit for my friend’s nonprofit organization – Military Mobility. M and I went to support that for a few ours, then I stopped at my bf’s house to watch a movie and then go home.

Monday was a normal work day. Tuesday was one meeting and then on the road to Charlottesville. Had a work dinner and then meetings and lunch the next day and home by 4. Thursday was a normal work day, and that night my guy and I went out and I stayed at his place.

Friday I worked from home in the morning before another class, and then cocktails after with my friend AM (who was one of the teachers of the class). As school winds down, I really do want to focus on my start-up or 2 that I have percolating in my brain for the last year or so.

Saturday was the gym, a quick visit to see my guy, then tons of errands. My youngest had plans last night to go ice skating with a boy who is a hockey player. So I took her and picked her up, and in between went to my office to work on my dissertation. Long story, but Grammarly has a file size limit, and mine is too big. The Mac version doesn’t have the Word plugin, but the Windows one does. Had to hit the office for that, but I got it done, so that felt great!

This morning was brunch with bf and then lunch with LC, and now laundry, cooking, cleaning, packing, and writing. I head to Chicago tomorrow for a few days – but I’m excited because I’ll get to spend my sister’s birthday with her Wednesday evening!

Oh – quick update on this year’s “project food” – whiskey. It’s going quite well! So I stared with the Wiki page in how to drink it – which meant neat, possibly with a dropper of water, or on ice. That didn’t work so well for me. What has worked well, though, are mixed drinks! I’m enjoying Old Fashioned, Whiskey Sour, New York Sour (which is a whiskey sour with red wine tossed in for fun), and have had a couple others as well. At my work dinner, my dining companion is a big Japanese whiskey drinker, so I got introduced to that, and was quite pleased. So we’ll see!

Other random fun pics

It’s like Luna doesn’t think Kuma should be left alone because she does silly things like sleep in ridiculously awkward positions.

So my eldest makes these exact faces! Especially the one on the bottom right. Which is the exact face she made when she found out about the boy taking R ice skating….

A spot my bf and I like in Charlottesville. Haven’t been in ages though!

A Very Merry Time Indeed

FOOD

Friday I had a smoothie in my office for breakfast and a solo Thai lunch. Dinner was awesome though – the wine bar my guy and I go to now has a plant based menu section! Several months ago, the chef decided to be vegan for a month, just to see what it was like for me (which is epically cool). First, I hear he loves eating vegan – which is awesome. But even more so is the new menu, and I had the vegan po boy for dinner Saturday night (as did my meat eating friend I was there with), and it was delicious!

Other eats include brunch with my boyfriend, salads, beans and rice, and of course Christmas dinner of Tofurkey, mashers, corn, stuffing, mushroom gravy, and a bunch of other dishes I just didn’t get to.

FITNESS

Gym on Saturday, Monday, and Tuesday for the HIIT class. And yesterday was my traditional Christmas run. I’ve done it 11 out of 12 years – missed last year because I was in WI and it was snowy and cold and ewww.

I rolled my ankle Saturday night – nothing fun, literally just stepping off a curb. But it was too sore on Sunday to do anything. It was swollen and I was worried I sprained it, but by Monday it was still sore, but I felt comfortable hitting the gym. I just modified any moves that required jumping. To be honest, it is still slightly sore, but it was fine for my run yesterday and I’m heading to the gym in a few where I expect it’ll be fine also.

LIFE

It was nice to be in the office on Friday and Monday. After work Friday, I went out with friends to celebrate the end of another term and that I am officially ABD! That means “all but dissertation”. Essentially, I’m done with classes and my focus shifts to research, analysis, publication, and graduation! My girlfriend I went out with is also in my program and knows just how hard I’ve worked to get to this point faster than anyone has before. So she and her husband treated me to a wonderful night of wine, food, and fun.

I was there about 30 min before S and A arrived. So Alex the bartender – who knows what we love to drink – kept giving me short pours of new things to try

This – was disgusting. Couldn’t even finish the sample, it was so bad.

A turmeric whiskey sour. Was quite good, though I let A finish it because I can’t really mix wine and booze

Saturday I spent the afternoon and night with my boyfriend. We ran some errands and then went to our fav Cape Charles’ spots for cider and cocktails (see now why I stumbled off the curb 🤦🏻‍♀️?).

The next morning was brunch at one of our 2 regular spots and then it was off to run errands on my way home.

Monday was in the office again, then the gym and more errands. I had to pick up some groceries and went to the store near my house. It was a madhouse, and the line looked more like a theme park rollercoaster line than a grocery store!

So Christmas. Normally one of my least favorite holidays – ever since I was a kid. This year was actually really nice. On Christmas Eve, the tradition in my family is to open pajamas and a game, and whoever wins the game gets to choose breakfast in the morning (which means I shop for what 5 people like for breakfast because you never know who the winner will be!).

My son in law spent it with us, and he ended up winning the game. I didn’t play because I was cooking – but it was fun to watch them.

Christmas morning was also nice. Coffee first, then gifts, breakfast, and my run. After cleaning up from breakfast, I put out appetizers and a Bloody Mary bar to snack on until dinner.

We spent the day at home. My boyfriend came over for a few hours and we did his gifts too. I got a Google WiFi mesh that he installed and it’s amazing!

I love maps and globes. Several weeks ago my youngest asked me where I’ve always wanted to go. Without hesitation – Morocco. She got me a framed 1800’s era map of Morocco – in French! I love love love it. I also got a book and a travel cord organizer from my sister, another framed print from my son, flavored vinegar and olive oil and a bottle of Bulleit from my daughter and son-in-law, and an Amazon gift card from my mom. Though honestly – it was less about the what (which was all lovely), and more about the who. I got to be with the people closest to me and have a great day.

What my travel cord “bag” looks like now – so what C got me really is perfect!

Only downside yesterday was the holiday light plan. We went to the Merry Mile, which is at the Virginia Beach oceanfront – you drive on the boardwalk of the beach and see the lights that are there, usually driving under them. It’s about 30 minutes away, and we wait in the long line of cars….to find out its cash only. THE WEBSITE DIDN’T SAY THAT. The kids didn’t want to hunt down an atm and then get back in line, so we went home instead.

Okay, Star Wars. To be honest, I have always been more of a Star Trek fan, but with the series concluding, I want to brush up on the series, so I’ve been working on watching them all in a lead up to going to see the finale on Saturday with my son, boyfriend, and his eldest. I never even saw them all, so it has been a fun education. Thus far, I have watched 5 of them.

And other miscellaneous shots of the week!

Is That a Chardonnay in Your Pocket, Or Are You Just Happy to See Me

FOOD

One morning last week (Wednesday, I think) I made oatmeal and put a scoop of protein powder in it. I’ve done this before and it was fine, but this was just nasty. I choked it down but wish I hadn’t!

I had Ezekiel toast with sunbutter two days. No other breakfasts in the past few days.

I haven’t had much of an appetite since Friday morning, and honestly – haven’t eaten much. W was not happy with that, so we went out to Fancy Radish in DC and shared a few plate. Still couldn’t eat much, but did have a bite or two of everything.

FITNESS

Worked out every day last week, either a run, a spin, or a strength training session. Saturday I was in DC and did a ton of walking. I do wish I had packed workout clothes. A run in the city would’ve been perfect. Today we’ll see. Could probably use a run or a hot yoga class honestly, but I just got home from a weekend away and am not sure yet.

LIFE

Been a fairly rough week, but it is what it is. Friday I headed up to DC for a weekend and holiday party with friends. It was a much needed weekend.

Friday I wandered around Old Town Alexandria for a couple hours. I was planning to stop at this one wine shop, but it was closed. Stopped at the Majestic for a glass of wine and reading before heading over to W’s house.

W and I hung out at his place for a bit, then walked the couple blocks to Fancy Radish for dinner. Then back to his place for a few hours, then back to my hotel.

Saturday morning was a little rough, but then I met up with A to grab coffee and watch the Scottish Day parade. It was awesome, I can’t believe I didn’t get any shots of the tons of dogs in tartan in the parade! But it was a really great time.

My girl A taking pics!

After the parade, I walked to the metro and went to the Natural History museum for a bit. Then back to my hotel. I was supposed to meet up with friends for the parade of boats with Christmas lights, but I dozed off. Did make it in plenty of time for the party though, which was really nice. There were about 15 or so of us. Grad school buds and their other halves mostly.

For the past several years, my friend D and I pick on Chardonnay drinkers. It goes back to an experience with an ex-girlfriend of his, and has turned into a bit of a running joke. So he got to the party, came over to give me a hug, and pulled out a bottle of Chardonnay! It was hilarious. Obviously left for other party guests if anyone wanted it.

Just the Darden classmates!

This morning I woke up and drove home! Got home about an hour and a half ago. Not sure what the rest of my day will look like, though likely cleaning, some cooking, school work, and maybe a movie.

Trying to see if I can like bourbon. A and K happened to pour a class of Pappy van Winkle – a $700 bottle – and I only had a tiny sip, but it wasn’t bad!

Picking the wee one up from robotics