JEFSWYF (and why she makes me sad)

FOOD

As usual, the week after traveling means I’m digging my kitchen even more than normal. Of course I did get tofu green curry (several times!), some salad bar salads (loved the Whole Foods one since they also had tofu eggless salad, and the typical daily green smoothies. Otherwise we had one big Indian food night (talking 7 dishes!) and one night was homemade pizzas!

FITNESS

Oh yes, it’s nice to be home! Several runs and even got in a hot yoga class (man, how I miss those). Crazy schedule should be easing up for a few weeks anyway, so hopefully more yoga coming.

When I’m doing one of my longer runs, I always end up in my old neighborhood. There’s a minivan parked in front of a home that has the license plate JEFSWYF and while it used to annoy me, now it just makes me sad. Now – I don’t know who Jeff’s wife is, but I wonder if SHE knows who she is. Hear me out – it makes me sad when I hear people – especially women – who define themselves in terms of others instead of themselves. Yes, she’s clearly a wife, but that’s a role, not an identity. Based on the minivan, I’m sure she’s a mother too, and I would imagine a wonderful one. But that’s also a role and not an identity. And I realize I’m judging this woman based on her license plate, but I have known women like this in my life. Who introduce themselves in terms of their husbands instead of themselves. I’d rather know about YOU. What do you like, what makes you happy, where did you go to school, what are your views and opinions on things. And I have to say when I see license plates like that, it does make me feel a little sorry for that person. It may be unwarranted, but I’d rather see a plate that says something other than their role in a relationship. Maybe it’s because most of the women I know – my friends, family, and co-workers – are all kick-ass, educated, intelligent, and strong, that I get sad when I see a woman who may not be. I want to grab her and tell her she’s worthwhile of being her OWN person too! (Ok, rant done)

LIFE

Been a pretty good week since getting back from Vegas. It took nearly the entire time for my skin to recover tho. Ugh – dessert air and dry skin suck.

Back to some of the regularly scheduled programming, including Cribbage Club! And in last week’s edition, the student surpassed the master! Okay, it wasn’t by much, but still. I’ll have to make sure he doesn’t make a habit of it 😉

Thursday night was a night in eating Indian food. I made 7 dishes, which was probably too many, but it’s fun. My eldest had a guest come down from Canada for a long weekend, and after some drama which included a lost phone and a trip to the phone store to get it replaced, it ended up being a pretty chill and nice night.

On Friday I hit up the movies to see Tomb Raider! I remember when the first one came out – my eldest was 5 and I took her to the drive in just to see it. It was really one of the first times I remember a totally kick ass female character, and was glad A would see it.

Saturday was my 2nd fav holiday (after Halloween)! It was mostly a night in making homemade pizzas, playing Exploding Kittens, and watching movies. Went out briefly, but was just as happy to chill at home.

Sunday was the regional robotics competition that my youngest R is in! She had a great time and it was a ton of fun to see the robot wars and how incredibly talented these future engineers are. They’re all so supportive and honestly – silly. Between major rounds there was the tendency to bust out into some serious group dances.

Then it was back to work and normal routines! Oh, except one thing. I FINISHED THE FIRST TERM OF MY DOCTORAL PROGRAM THIS WEEKEND!!! WOO. Next term starts April 9, so a few weeks to chill and read my trashy vampire books before getting down to business once again.

Hope you’re all having an amazing week too!

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RunCrissieRun

I am a 44 yo busy career single mom, attempting to find her inner athlete, be a gluten-free(ish) vegan, and find a way to balance it all without going crazy! I love to cook, read, run, box, do yoga, dance, travel, and learn as many new things as I can - which often gets me in trouble.... I am passionate about life in general, and if I didn't write about it, I'd probably implode.

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